When normal becomes abnormal

I've noticed over the past few months in both my family practice rotations and this pediatrics rotations that I am excited and surprised when I walk into a patient's room to see both a mom and a dad sitting there with their child. This is a rarity. It's a rarity to find a married couple excited and curious to learn about their new little one. You would be surprised the family dynamics that can be observed in a 15 minute visit. My insides smile when I see parents who you can tell care about each other and show love and concern for their little one.
It is far too often that I see teenage and single mothers with these babies that yes they love, but just want them to be better so they will stop fussing. I am not saying that a teenager or a single mother cannot be a good parent, I'm just commenting on what I have been observing far too often. It is amazing the developmental differences between these types of kids - the ones who are nurtured and truly cared for compared to those who are left in front of video games or the tv all day.
It's a tough job for both the physician who has a limited amount of time with their patients - often referring to social services when needed. I have lots to learn about social services and what they can do for my patients. Don't worry I have the perfect resource - social worker in training - Ashley Melson.

One more example of when normal becomes abnormal. Melanie was in outpatient clinic the other day and this mother came in worried that her children were not gaining enough weight. She said she felt they were too thin and wanted to know if it was a problem. The doctor said nope - the children are fine and are at a very good weight for their age and height. The reason that your kids look so thin is because many of the other kids are overweight!